A Conversation with Francesca Donker, Founder of Frank & Lola

I first met Francesca Donker in a ceramics class, where her delightful, vivacious presence immediately stood out. She had a wonderful sense of humor, an infectious enthusiasm, and a self-confessed perfectionism that showed even in the smallest details of her work. Despite that perfectionism, she never let it get in the way of her sense of humor. She is also charmingly self-deprecating, which only adds to her warmth.

Not long after, I ran into her at a fabric store just around the corner. I remember being struck by her professionalism as she carefully selected and ordered materials, and at that point, I had no idea she was a fashion designer.

Francesca is a woman full of surprises. No sooner do you discover one aspect of her life than another emerges. Born in the Netherlands, she moved to Canada at the age of eleven, and has since lived in multiple countries, bringing with her a rich mix of cultural influences. Her natural warmth is evident in everything she does. Her love of children once led her to work as a kindergarten teacher, while her deep affection for animals is reflected in the name of her brand. Her cat, Lola, lends her name to the label, while Francesca herself is the Frank.

What brought you to Rome?

Five years ago, I moved to Rome to become a professional tailor. I enrolled in a three-year tailoring school here, and during my studies, I started my own company.

Why Rome, and not Milan, where many of the major schools are based?

Most of the bigger schools are in Milan, but they have a smaller branch in Rome. I chose Rome simply because I love the city more.

Did you always know you wanted to work in fashion?

I always knew I wanted my own store. I grew up sewing. My mom taught me everything. During COVID, I was working as a kindergarten teacher and had to make a decision: continue on that path or follow my dream of becoming a tailor. I chose to follow my dream.

On Style and Inspiration

How would you describe your aesthetic?

Very classic, with a strong connection to the Mediterranean, lots of linen. It’s not tied to a specific time period, but more to a region and a lifestyle.

Who inspires you?

I love Sienna Miller and Zoë Kravitz. They’re daring, chic, and playful without trying too hard. Style like that can’t be taught. It comes from within.

I also admire the Olsen twins. What they’ve built with The Row is incredible. It’s one of the most successful fashion brands in the world, and their aesthetic is deeply rooted in who they are.

Is there a historical time period that you like best for fashion?

Not the 90s and not the early 2000s. My style is not really attached to a timeline, but more to a region, which is usually the Mediterranean.

On Her Brand and Design Perspective

What makes your designs different from other tailors in Rome?

Many designers and tailors from Rome have a very classic approach to tailoring. However, since my brand is primarily a summer brand, I like to design romantic pieces with a Mediterranean flair.

What kind of woman do you design for? Can you describe her lifestyle or mindset?

I design clothes for women who appreciate slow living and high-quality pieces. Women who embrace la vita lenta while enjoying outfits made from organic, natural materials sourced directly from Southern Europe.

What do you want someone to feel when they wear your pieces?

I hope to make women feel as beautiful as possible, so they can take a moment to slow down and enjoy that extra second, like sipping a cappuccino in the sun.

Is there a specific message or philosophy behind your brand?

I would say la vita lenta. Since all my pieces are made by hand, part of my process is embracing that beautiful things take time. I design and create everything myself, so each piece is limited and made with quality. I believe my customers really love and appreciate this.

On Style and Dressing

What are three wardrobe staples every woman should own?

A little black dress, a classic pair of linen pants, and a long white cotton skirt.

What is the biggest mistake women make when dressing themselves?

I don’t necessarily believe in big fashion mistakes. I love it when people dare to be bold and dress however they feel. Being brave, mixing patterns, experimenting with bold colors, and taking risks is something I really admire.

How can someone begin to develop their personal style if they feel lost?

I think a great starting point is getting a color analysis. This helps you understand which colors suit you best, and from there you can begin choosing pieces that truly feel like you. I always believe you should feel comfortable in what you’re wearing, otherwise it shows.

What is one styling tip that can instantly elevate a look?

Accessories. I love wearing a more basic linen outfit and using accessories to add extra flair. That’s how I personally like to dress. I also have a very extensive earring collection.

A Life Across Cultures

You’ve lived in many countries. Where have you felt most at home?

I’ve lived in Poland, Canada, Germany, Korea, Spain, and Italy. Every place has something positive and something challenging. No country is perfect. But I’ve never truly felt at home anywhere except Italy.

What have these cultures taught you?

The Dutch are direct and efficient. I appreciate this a lot. Canadians are kind and welcoming. Germans take time to open up, but when they do, they are very loyal. In Barcelona, I loved how active and outdoorsy life is. In Korea, my students made my day.

On Personal Growth

Is there something about you that people might not expect?

Maybe that I am bipolar. I was diagnosed a year and a half ago, and it was one of the best things that happened to me because it helped me so much. Now that I’m on medication and stable, I’m able to be a better artist and a better person. My life is much better, and I hope to be open about it so others don’t feel shame.

What would you say to someone struggling?

Don’t hide. Go check yourself and reach out for help. Don’t live in shame. Tell people and ask for help.

A Defining Influence

Has a book or experience had a profound impact on you?

Eat Pray Love had a profound impact on my life because it inspired me to go to India and stay at an ashram.

It wasn’t fancy. It was real. You live simply, contribute to the community, and experience a completely different way of living. It made me realize how simply most of the world lives.

Looking Ahead

Where do you see your brand in five to ten years?

I want to have my own store. I would love to have a store, maybe in Matera, which is my favorite place in the world.

Now based in Rome, Francesca chose the city as the place to pursue her path as a tailor. Her brand, Frank & Lola, reflects a slower, more intentional rhythm. Each piece is handmade, produced in small quantities, and inspired by a Mediterranean way of living that values simplicity, quality, and time.

We spoke about her journey, her creative process, and the philosophy behind her work.

Style Notes from Italy: In Conversation with Francesca Donker